Sometimes or another , you would have people wooing you . Being woo-ed is a good feeling , BUT , it depends on who's wooing you and such .
If you're being woo by a MR NICE , oh well , that's great and why not take this chance and you might be getting married a few months later !
But , if Mr CMI came and woo you , that's gonna cause you a headache seriously . But no worries , i'm here to help ^^
I AM TO BE VERY BHB AFTER THIS SENTENCE ENDS , DON'T READ IF YOU CANNOT STAND IT .
Sometimes , i do have guys wooing me , but most are MR CMI . I shalln't mention names as it gonna make me feel bad , so i shall be nice and not typed out their names ^^
Those MR CMI are those you die also CANNOT shake them off one , horrible isn't it ? Like they're SUPERGLUE / MAGNET ! Then they will be like asking you out and trying to flirt with you -.- terrible ! And they actually KNOW that you won't be with them although they've tried wooing you for number of years . It's really GODDAMN IRRITATIING and i feel like SLAPPING them straight across the face and ASKING THEM TO FCUK OFF . Yes , this is what i will do from now on !
The solution is here * LIGHT BULB APPEARS *
You've to make it CLEAR , ABSOLUTELY CLEAR to the person saying that YOU 2 CAN'T BE TOGETHER AND WHY . MEND back the TORN friendship , yes , FRIENDSHIP , NOT mend back the person's broken heart as you AIN'T gonna with him / her . Mend it back sincerly and carefully , WITHOUT making the person falling deeper in love with you or causing the person hurt AGAIN is a NONO !
I actually used to think that avoiding the person is something that could make him forget me , but sadly , this WON'T make the person forget you . But the person would DEFINITELY remember you , cause it only leads to hatred and once the hatred stays there , it will always be there . Normally when people say come on , let's bury the hatchet , but sadly , there's still , there's something that lay down there , like a time ticking bomb which might explode anytime . SO PLEASE DO NOT IGNORE THE PERSON BUT JUST TREAT THE PERSON LIKE NORMAL .
So now , you should have mastered the Art Of Rejection ^^
But do not reject the right one if you've found him / her . Hold on to them tight and never let go if possible . Cause if you do , you're gonna regret for letting go .
I've regretted once , really regretted and you know who you're .
This was such a good post :)
ReplyDeleteIt's true that I've had quite a bit of CMI guys >_>" so annoying lol :( And haha, unfortunately I am one of those girls who completely ignores them - but in the end, we became friends again. Like years later lol. So I don't know hmmm.
but I have an awesome boyfriend now so no need to worry about stuff like that ^^
Hi Melody , haha , that's really sad . But it's great that you guys could be friends again ! ^^
ReplyDeleteAGREE , if you've a nice boyfriend , there's toally no need to bother about them (: